If you are reading this article it is probably because someone has sent it to you, someone who is suffering from an immune system condition like MCAD or an Environmental Illness like Toxicant-Induced Loss of Tolerance sometimes referred to as MCS. I would like to thank you for taking the time to read this article.
Many times we feel guilty for having to ask family and friends to make accommodations for us. Some of us value our relationships so much that we would rather deal with the unbearable symptoms after exposure than speak up and sound offensive by our requests. It is a cycle of self-destruction. We place others first at the expense of our own health…until we crash and end up in a hospital or breathing through an oxygen mask.
After months of being very sick following an exposure, everything begins to settle in. We may be told by our physician that we have to practice extreme chemical avoidance.
Some are prescribed oxygen tanks to use at home, some have to be hospitalized until symptoms settle and all functions are stable. In every case it is different but symptoms are usually quite severe before we are forced to speak up.
Below are some things to keep in mind when you want to visit someone with severe chemical sensitivities or Multiple Chemical Sensitivity (MCS) – Toxicant-Induced Loss of Tolerance (TILT).
Before we can proceed I must ask. Do you know what MCS/TILT is and how severely it affects people? Before continuing please click here to read about this debilitating illness.
We even have an entire month dedicated to us. You can read about that here. Interested in peer-reviewed studies, then click here.
MCAD (Mast Cell Activation Disorder) also affects many people who have MCS so please be cautious as this condition intensifies MCS and makes it nearly impossible to be near any type of trigger. “MCAD is an immunological condition in which mast cells inappropriately and excessively release chemical mediators, resulting in a range of chronic symptoms, sometimes including anaphylaxis or near-anaphylaxis attacks.” Source
So now that you know a little bit more, here are some guidelines you can follow when going to visit someone who suffers from the above-named illnesses. Please note that not all people will need to follow this extent of precaution. Each person is at a different stage of their illness so I recommend that speak with the person affected and have them specify the things that they would like you to do prior to visiting.
A note about essential oils: Essential Oils even the ones that are in their purest form are NOT tolerated by most people suffering from the above-named illnesses, so please do not use any on your body, hair or on your clothing for a few days before your planned visit.
Procedures for the day you are planning to visit:
Clothing and Laundry
Soak all laundry for several hours or overnight before washing in 4 cups of baking soda. Wash all clothing you plan on wearing at least twice to remove any residue of perfumes, etc. If you use fabric softer and detergent with fragrance it is best to purchase a clean set of clothes and wash them by hand and hang them to dry as the washing machine and dryer will have the fragrance from previous washes and will make the clothes you are washing pick up those fragrances.
Clothing can be washed with 4 cups of baking soda and water. If tolerated by the person you are visiting, you can also add 2 cups of distilled white vinegar and a fragrance-free liquid detergent like Seventh Generation Free & Clear. For another fragrance-free detergent, option click here. http://www.ewg.org/guides/cleaners/3197-GrabGreen3in1LaundryDetergentPodsFragranceFree#.Wd9_EZ8pDgA
Let clothes soak for a few hours or overnight and then rinse.
Do not use regular detergent even if it says “Scent Free” because in many cases the manufacturing companies use chemical masking agents to cover up the chemical smells used in their products.
Do not use any fabric softener. Dry your clothes and put them on just before you are ready to leave home. If you are not wearing clothes immediately place them in a large new zip-lock bag and store them away from any fragrances until it is time to get dressed.
Clean the body and wash your hair with fragrance-free castile soap like this one or like this one found at Walmart. Do not use any of your shampoos, conditioner, hair styling creams, moose, leave-in conditioners or detanglers in your hair. You can also use Dr. Bronner’s liquid or bar soaps, True Body Unscented Soap or Kiss My Face Fragrance-Free Soap bars. Remember to ask the person what they can tolerate as some people may be OK with using a glycerin-based soap that is readily available at most stores for under one dollar. For a list of fragrance-free products please click here.
Moisturizing Conditioning & Deodorant
Ask the person you are visiting if they can tolerate refined coconut oil, raw coconut oil or grapeseed oil. If they can, you can use these oils to moisturize your skin and condition your hair after coming out of the shower. Refined coconut oil has less of a smell and is tolerated by many people as is pure grapeseed oil.
Do not use any type of store-bought deodorant. You can mix a pinch of baking soda in 6 tablespoons of water and apply with a rag under your arms. You can also slice a lime or lemon and rub under your arms. Some people with MCS can tolerate fragrance-free deodorants but always ask them before applying.
Makeup should be avoided unless it is mineral-based and fragrance-free and it is approved by the person with MCS. Some people can tolerate a fragrance-free lip balm and mineral-based blush but others may not be able to so always ask before using any cosmetic products.
Do not dye your hair or do any hair treatments at least 2 weeks before you are planning to visit as chemicals in these products will linger on hair for days and can cause a reaction.
Do not use any shaving creams, moisturizer, beard wax or aftershave. If you need to shave do so a few days before your visit or if you must shave the day of your visit you can mix grapeseed oil and castile soap to use as shaving cream.
Gas Stations & Perfumes
Do not stop to pump gas the day you are visiting. Petrochemical fumes stick to clothing and shoes and can affect a person just the same as spraying them with perfume would.
Perfumes are included in this section because over 95 percent of the chemicals in synthetic fragrances are derived from petrochemicals.
Do not use any perfume at all, not even if it is organic or all-natural. Also, do not use any essential oils as they contain chemical compounds that can cause reactions.
Vehicle & Home Maintenance
Remove all scented air fresheners from your vehicle at least 1 month before visiting the person with MCS. Open your car windows each day and allow the car to air out as you drive to remove any residue of chemicals. Although removing car air fresheners may be beneficial to some people with mild MCS, many will react to a car’s air freshener even months after the fresheners have been removed since a small residue always remains from air fresheners. So play it safe and always ask your friend with MCS what they prefer you to do. They may suggest riding in someone else’s car that does not use car air fresheners.
Discontinue all use of air fresheners in your home at least one month before planning your visit. This means plugins, sprays, mothballs, etc. Let your home air out each week as well by opening windows.
Do not paint your home, use chemical household cleaners, fertilizers, bug spray or disinfectants on the day you are visiting someone with MCS.
Purses & Backpacks
It is best to avoid bringing large bags when visiting as these can often pick up smells, molds and other bio-contaminants from places you have visited. If possible place your identification and main items in a small wallet or zip lock bag. You can also lock your bag in the trunk of your car if you feel secure doing so.
For families traveling with children or people needing to carry many items, use a washable diaper bag, purse or backpack, and wash following the procedures mentioned above.
Upon Arriving For Your Visit
Be prepared to take off your shoes and place them in a bag, garage or on a shoe rack.
Don’t be offended or take it personally if you missed something and your host reacts with strong symptoms. Try to be as understanding and loving as possible and follow any suggestions they may give you such as washing your face, showering, changing clothes, clipping up your hair, etc.…
Remember this person suffering could be you. Think about how you would like to be treated if you were in the same situation. Place yourself in their position.
Avoid making critical or judgmental comments such as:
“Oh my goodness, but I thought my body wash was OK. I don’t react to it at all and I have severe allergies.”
“You are so sensitive and it seems crazy to have to do all this just to visit you.”
“Haven’t you seen a doctor already? Why aren’t you cured? You must not want to get better.”
Comments like these are a slap in the face and they are like telling someone in a wheelchair with a crippling disability that they need to walk to and from their car without using a wheelchair.
Did you know that people who suffer from MCAD, TILT, and MCS are protected under the Americans with Disabilities Act? These conditions are considered disabling as they severely alter a person’s quality of life, their ability to work and function properly.
Please do not discriminate against them the same way you wouldn’t discriminate against someone with muscular dystrophy, cancer, ALS or someone in a wheelchair.